When talking about sex, we often think that the only way is through real bodies; our own or those of another person. But what if there was a way for us to have sex without ever having to touch each other physically?
In this article I’ll try to explain what this means and how it could be done. The first thing to understand is that virtual sex does not mean that we will never see the other people’s body again. Virtual sex is simply an alternative form of interaction between two people, as opposed to physical interaction. It is possible that one day we may even merge these forms together.
The basis of virtual sex are digital media like computers, tablets, phones etc., but also video calling apps such as Skype, FaceTime and Google Hangouts or live sex cam sites such as LiveJasmin, ImLive, HornyRooms, Camlis, Chaturbate and many more. Cams is a good choice if you don’t have a sex partner and looking to find a virtual one. These tools allow two people who want to interact sexually to do so from their homes.
Virtual sex opens up many new possibilities, including the fact that you don’t need to meet face-to-face with someone before engaging in sexual activity. This allows you to engage in sex when you’re traveling, working remotely, during your lunch break at work or on holidays. You can also have sex over long distances, and enjoy being able to feel the presence of your partner while they sleep. And because you can use any device you wish, you can choose whatever works best for you – whether it’s a laptop, phone or tablet.
But perhaps most importantly, virtual sex has the advantage of allowing you to explore your sexuality without actually making contact with anyone else. If you’re shy about revealing yourself to others, this can provide a safe space where you can experiment with certain activities.
Here are some basic rules to follow when using virtual sex platforms:
One of the main things to remember about virtual sex is that it is still sex. Even though there is no bodily contact, it should always be treated with respect just like all other aspects of life. Remember that you are interacting with a real human being, which makes them vulnerable and sensitive. Try to refrain from swearing or vulgar language. Be polite and considerate. Don’t send pictures showing private parts unless both parties agree beforehand.
Take care of safety
While virtual sex can create more freedom than physical sex, you shouldn’t let it distract you from taking care of your health. For example, if you’re looking for casual encounters, you might want to set limits on how often you use the app you chose. Or if you’re looking for more serious encounters, you might want to set limits on how long you chat with people.
Protect your identity
If you’re going to use your real name, make sure that you keep your profile completely anonymous. Never share personal information like home address, email address or phone number. Do not disclose anything that would identify you specifically.
Consider your age
Some platforms offer different settings depending on your age. In general, you should stick to the same standards as you’d apply if meeting someone in person. However, if you’re under 18, you should consult your parents about what kind of content you view on the platform.
Keep track of time
Most platforms will automatically log off after a certain amount of time passes since your last login. So if you lose track of time, you might accidentally end up sending messages back and forth with strangers. To prevent this from happening, make sure that you set reminders on your phone or computer to check that you aren’t logged into the platform anymore.
If you’re planning to meet someone in person, you probably already know that you should avoid situations where you’re alone with someone you don’t know well. The same goes for virtual sex. Before deciding to participate in a session, ask yourself if you feel comfortable doing so. Some people may find it easier to connect emotionally with someone they’ve met online rather than someone they’ve known personally.
Talk about consent
Consent is extremely important in virtual sex just as it is in physical sex. As mentioned above, make sure that you discuss everything with your partner prior to participating in any session. Ask what your partner wants to happen in the session. If you’re uncomfortable with any aspect, ask if you can postpone the session until you’re ready.
Just have fun!
Remember that the point of virtual sex is to have fun. Enjoy yourself and take pleasure in what you’re doing. If you focus solely on getting aroused, you might miss out on the opportunity to develop deeper connections with your partner.